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yes, yes,vikas, i will be there in 10 minutes. what is the time? 10 minutes past 9? oh, my god! mother! - yes? come out quickly. where is my shirt? it is ironed and ready. tiffin? - i was packing it. yes. yes, vikas, i willbe at the bus stop in 10 minutes.

what? scooter? if i ask for keys to the scooter,mother will say.. i will get worried if you are ina hurry and are driving the scooter. for whom the governmenthas made the buses? for you. go by bus. did you hear that? today i found outthat the government.. ..has made the bus for me. don't you know, vikas,how possessive mother is towards me?

she lives for me. you are harassing me.killing me. yes, i have reached. i will bring it. i will bring it, put the phone down. put the phone down. you won't put the phone down? okay, i will put it down. what happened, uncle?

why are you getting angry at aunt? what has naina done? sister, your sister-in-law naina.. ..has been nagging me since a week. buy diamond earring for me. buy diamond earrings for me. i told her the diamondtops won't be visible.. ..on her 105 kilo body. then?

aunt must have got angry. she didn't get angry. she was enraged. she told me if i didn'tbuy diamond earrings for her.. ..she will sit on mewith her 105 kilo body. oh, my god. you are surprised but i panicked. tell me, have you everstood on a weighing machine.. ..at a station? yes.

what comes out if youput a two rupee coin in it? a ticket. when your aunt getson it no ticket comes out. a voice says, 3-4 peoplemust not step on it at a time. i told her, fatso, reduce your weight. people call you fatso andthey call me the husband of a fatso. she went to a doctor. the doctor said,naina you have only one option. do horse riding ifyou want to reduce weight.

she rented a horse anddid horse riding for a month. did her weight reduce? of course it reduced. of the horse. this fatso,she says that she will sit on me. what will happen tome if she really sits? what will happen? when i go out next day,the people of the society will say.. ..look, the ironedbhadrakant is going.

stop it. there is no point in repenting. they treated youto puffed rice snack.. ..and you got me married to her. she is a rich man'sdaughter and she is proud.. ..that she studied in english medium. nephew, let me tell you,whenever you marry.. ..you must marry a girl whohas studied only in gujarati medium. okay, but do buy diamondear rings for aunt.

i will buy, but of americandiamond from bhuleshwar. when the wife asksfor real diamond earrings.. ..give her those madefrom american diamonds. and if she demands thosemade from american diamonds.. ..then only give herthose made of real diamonds. all the men in the world willlive happily if they understand this. bhadrakant, those men whoseek happiness in diamond earrings.. ..they only become unhappy. son, if we keep ourmind as clear as diamond..

..happiness will comeknocking on your door. looks like she has attendedmurai bapu's speech. that reminds me.i met subodhbhai sukhadia from parla. but hadn't he settled down in america? yes, but currently he is here. he told me, bhadrakantbhai,we have lived in america.. ..for so many years butwe still remember the taste.. ..of kunjbala's cooking. really? - yes.

he told me that he was goingto stay here for two months.. ..ask kunjbala to send tiffinjust like she used to do earlier. sure, i will send it. no problem. there is no need for that. uncle, refuse it. but son, they have come from america. so what? when i used to run a tiffin service.. ..they always usedto order tiffin from me.

your father died whenyou were just one year old. my in-laws had abandoned me. my siblings supportedme but they themselves.. ..were facing financial crunch. it was hard for meto make two ends meet. in those days subodhbhaihad helped me quite often. he bought and gavethis sewing machine to me. i used to supplytiffin during the day.. ..and used to do sewingin the night and yet many times ..

..i couldn't have enoughmoney for your fees. then subodhbhai used to loan me money. how can i refuse him? i am not asking you to refuse him. invite him home and feed himto your satisfaction but not tiffin. mother, you have done enough. for many years you haverun pratik tiffin service. you have burned yourhands to make me independent. you have spoiled your eyesworking on this sewing machine..

..and made me fit to face the world. it is now my turn togive you time to relax. to toil for your happiness. god has put you throughmany tests and you passed in them. you have successfully passed them. now i will give the tests. mother, you have fulfilled my dreams. now it is my turnto fulfil your dreams. enough, son. are you goingto make me cry in the morning?

right. uncle, what happened? i felt as if i was watchingan episode of balaji's serial. bhadrakant. heroes say similarthings to their mothers. yes, but the heroes also turntheir mothers into mothers-in-law. tell him. mother, you have started again. but son, you have grown up now.

old enough to marry. just now you saidthat i should relax now.. ..but i can relax onlywhen there is a daughter-in-law. stupid, you won't get to relaxwhen there is a daughter-in-law. then you will lose your freedom. what are you saying, uncle? what? the moment a womanbecome a mother-in-law.. ..her life changes.

bhadrakant, we should knowhow to change the situation. just wait and see. he is my one and only son. i will be happy if he is happy. i will treat mydaughter-in-law like a queen. yes, and she will turnyou into a maidservant. she will make you mop the floors. uncle, that won't happen.. ..because i havechosen a suitable girl.

you have? i will. i will choose onewho would understand me and mother.. ..and who would look after this house. i will look for someone like that. you will look for orhave you already found one? uncle, what are you saying? wouldn't i tell youif that was the case? - yes. would i hide it from you? - no. i am getting late for office.

yes, go, go. but i am going to find the reason.. ..for your returningearly from office, okay? bhadrakant. - yes? i have sent proposals to 2-3 families. i like bhavnaben'sdaughter bharti very much. what? bharti? she is very fat. she is not fat, she is healthy.

healthy? - yes,it means from a well-to-do family. as you wish. yes, as you wish. a boy behaves like lordram as long as he is a bachelor. he turns into ravanwhen he gets married. why stop it? son, here are your handkerchief,wallet and wristwatch. and son, i have made yourfavourite ladies' finger curry. eat properly. - okay.

bye, uncle. - bye. wait. look, don't hang outfrom the train door. - okay. and if the bus iscrowded then let it go. take the next bus. - okay. what now? - nothing. bye. why are you running? why are you going from that side?

i am getting late for officeso i am taking the short cut. okay, okay, watch out for the soap. take care and callme up on reaching there. hey! what is this, bhadrakant?i got scared. i too got scared. may i ask something? is my nephew goingto office or school? the boy has grown up now.

no matter how big the children grow.. ..they would still besmall children for the mother. look, the children forgetone thing as they grow up. that mother too has grownold by that many years. so the differencebetween age and nature.. ..also grows up alongwith the children. who will explain this thingto the current generation children? the daughters-in-law. they will immediately explainthat you are no longer a small boy.

you have grown so big. come out of mother's lap,you mama's boy. and immediately themother would explain. i changed nappies whenyou were a baby. - yes. i have brought you up. - right. your mind changed whenshe entered your life.. ..you wife-crazy boy? the poor boy facesin a dilemma due to this. he is beaten both ways.

he is torn between the two. you don't have controlover your tongue. i will treat my daughter-in-lawso nicely that people will wonder.. ..whether they are mother-in-lawand daughter-in-law.. ..or mother and daughter. excuse me! may i come in? after entering you areasking whether you can come in. sales girls are notallowed in our house. - no? we won't buy anything from you.

don't take out packetsof washing powder. in our house my sisterhas been washing clothes.. ..with nirma barsoap since many years.. ..and she also washesher hair with it. - what? because her hairis infested with lice. she has got a little dandruff also. sister, we have to saythat or else she will sell us.. ..useless item and leave. look.. - are you goingto take out a soda maker machine?

no one in our housedrinks cold drinks. we suffer from cold. we drink water onlyfrom 'gola' (earthen pot). 'gola'? i will have to explain 'gola' to her. 'gola' doesn't mean thosethat are sold on the juhu beach.. ..which are made like thisand we suck on it like this.. ..which drip with juicesand stain our clothes. so?

gujrati people callthe earthen pot as 'gola'. listen to me..- sister, please spare us. we are middle class people. if we don't buy anythingfrom you we will make you unhappy. it will bring us bad luck. so please leave. bye in gujarati,good-bye in christian. just a minute, i am not a sales girl. i have come here to meet pratik.

to meet pratik? she has come to meet pratik. thank god, she left. i am here. she is back. since past 20 minutes iwas standing at the street corner. i thought the pratikwill come to the bus stop.. ..to catch bus number 222. sister, she knows everythingabout which number bus..

..nephew catchesand from where and when. we will have to find out. now she will teachyou a lesson. - what? keep quiet. look, he left by the backdoor because he was getting late. but what do you want with him? i have an urgent work. pratik is not pickingup the phone also. a person cannot even raisehis hand in the crowded train..

..so how will he pick up the phone? is this how you should talk? where have you come from? - home. i am asking where your house is. i don't have a home. oh, so do you live on the streets? no, no, i live with my uncle. uncle...when did shecome to live at my house? bhadrakant,won't she too have an uncle?

oh, yes. look, pratik is not at home right now. he will return in theevening so come in the evening. that is not possible. i cannot even return home. if i go to office, even there, uncle.. what do i do? just a minute. sit. what is the matter?you seem to be confused.

can i be of any help? you only can help me. please help me. tell me clearly what you want to say. and him? yes, he is bhadrakant.he is my brother. we have no secrets from him. and there are no secretsbetween my son and me. that is your misconception.

pratik has kept asecret from you. - what? his love affair. he has kept a girl secret from you. what? so you and pratik.. yes, both must be having an affair. "where are you going afterluring me with your glances?" speak! she is mimicking me! - no. think of my age.

sorry. tell us what is goingon between you and pratik? since past 8 monthsevery morning we catch.. ..the 9.25 train togetherfrom charni road station.. ..and catch the 5.25 trainfrom kandivli and our meetings.. ..at the stationshas turned into love. that's it. sister...sister, what has happened? sister, are you alive or dead?

why should i die?my enemies would die. she is talking about you. - what? sister, sister, did you understand? nephew catches a trainat 5.25 from kandivli. what time that trainreached charni road? at 6.30. - yes. and what time does he return home? at 8.30. - yes, there isno account for the two hours gap. what does he say?

these days he has towork over time in office. do you understand his over time now? here is his over time, in person. well, do you have anything to say? "why fear when you have loved?" what is she singing?- would i sing such songs? "i have loved not committedtheft." - oh, this is my ringtone! pratik! hey! - what?

i am standing. give me the phone. why fear when you have loved, right? hey, wait! i too am standing. anarkali. hello, pratik,i am your mother speaking. which mother?how many mothers do you have? yes, i am speaking fromyour girlfriend's pone.

where are you? come back immediatelyfrom wherever you are. he is asking why! - really? why are you asking why? nephew, i am your uncle. return home immediately. your bad times have started. your over time has come home.. ..and your mother, like aticking bomb can explode any moment.

boom! god knows where he goes. he is out of his mind. he doesn't understand thathe has one and only mother. god knows what he is doing. should he behave like this? he is laughing. he is laughing. why hasn't he returned till now? bhadrakant, what is the time?

half past 10. we talked to him a long time back. why hasn't he come till now? where is he stuck? don't lean, you will fall down. bhadrakant,there are bars in the window. what if you slip through the bars? well? do you want to have tea? hey, bhadiya,she can have tea at her home, okay?

you are asking fortea at stranger's house. tea has become so expensive, you know? she is asking for it. i want to have teabut i won't drink it. do you want to have tea? i will make it right away. i will make three cups. you frequently keep asking for tea. you can have it all at the same time.

look, uncle.. - look at what? i am going to sufferfrom acidity because of you. mother! mother, mother,mother, mother, mother! uncle is here. - mother? mother is inside. she is in a rage. - what? just now she banged the plate. after two minute she will kick you.

varsha, should youhave come like this? you didn't even inform me. give me a minute to thinkabout what to tell mother. bhadrakant, here is your tea. god knows what i will tell people. i can't hear anything. speak loudly whateveryou want to say.. ..so that the matter can be resolved. i don't have to take a decision.

pratik has already taken a decision. absolutely right. did you feel any shame? you have deceived themother who gave birth to you? uncle, don't instigate. mother, i was goingto tell you. - when? at the right timeand in a relaxed way. yes, but she came here and shocked us. i wouldn't have done this,but mother, a situation was created..

hey, i am not yourmother-in-law as yet. sorry. - and you! didn't you feel ashamedthat you kept it a secret from me? from me? did i bring you up to see this day? did she run a tiffinservice to see this day? to see this day? to see this day? sister, for which day? may i speak?

i took a chance sinceyou didn't speak. mother, please listen to me. i don't want to hear anything. mother, you are under my oath. okay, tell me. look, mother,after serious thought i have taken.. ..the decision regarding varsha. the girl is very nice,with good morals and is sensible also. yes, yes, she is sensible.

i agree with this. the girl is sensible. that is why she hasgrabbed the opportunity. you are the only son. - yes. you have no siblings. - yes. there is only a widowedmother in your family. - yes. she is old. she may not live long. - uncle. it is just a saying.

in future when youare no longer alive.. ..she will rule overthe house and her husband. pardon me, uncle. if i was greedy for luxurious life.. ..i would have seduceda millionaire's son. i wouldn't have chosen a simple boy.. ..who grew up in poverty. hey, she is answering back. no, uncle, i am telling the truth.

and, mother.. - what? pratik's mother. - yes. i cannot lie or keepsecrets the way pratik can. i am sorry, mother. look, mother,till date have i done anything.. ..which would hurt you? no. you have been a witness toeach and every decision in my life. even now you will be.

mother, varsha and i love each other.. ..but we won't do anythingwithout your consent. and i don't want totake away your son from you. i too want to share theunlimited love you shower on him. i gave him my consentonly after hearing all about.. ..your becoming a widowto your bringing up pratik. when the mother is like this,there can be no fault in the son. i have seen his honestyand given my consent. enough. don't talk too sweet words.

sister is sufferingfrom sugar disease. sugar disease? diabetes. sugar diseasemeans diabetes, right, uncle? did you study in guarati medium? sarla sadan vidya mandir. the girl has studiedin gujarati medium. wow, dear, wow! you have made uncle very happy. praise to you andpraise to your parents.

you have passed in my test. sister, why are you doing this? you are very lucky. very few mothers-in-lawcan find a daughter-in-law.. ..who has studied in gujarati medium. bhadrakant, i don't wantto open a gujarati medium school. after marriage she is goingto live in my house and not in yours. may i talk in detail? mother, does it mean you agree?

that will depend onthe answers to my questions. what does it mean? that means teacher kunjbalachoksi will take your oral exam. sit. - okay. question one. what is your name? - varsha. will you let her speak? she didn't speak so isaid that her name is varsha. varsha, you amaze me.you are not speaking.

since past half houryou have been here. i know that you are nervousbut you should have told them.. ..that your name is varsha. mother should know itand uncle should know it. everybody should nowthat your name is varsha. you should have told them. varsha, speak. at least say something. she will speak if you keep quiet. her name is varsha.

my name is varsha. varsha said that she name is varsha. don't you have a full name? i have. varsha darshan jadhav. jadhav! listen, sir, jadhav. is she a maharashtrian? despite being a maharashtrian.. ..you have studied in gujarati medium?

pratik, a maharashtriangirl in a gujarati family? my father is a maharashtrianbut my mother is a gujarati. oh, she is half-gujarati. mother is like chalkand father is like cheese. i have been broughtup in gujarati tradition. okay, but those things,mutton and fish.. no, no, i don't eateven egg-based cake. poor girl eats eggless. how much have you studied?

b. com. - ssc. which one? b. com or ssc? i mean i studied tillb.com and she till ssc. you studied tillb.com and she till ssc? what happened to you? it is like you and brother-in-law. a difference of 5 classes. how much brother-in-law had studied? he was 9th class pass.

and you? hardly 4th class. next question. you had said thatyou live with your uncle. so where are your parents? my mother died wheni was 7 years old. and father? he is there. has he remarried? - yes.

a year after my mother's death.. ..father broke off relations with us. he left me at my uncle's place. my uncle took up my responsibility. in public i was like his daughter.. ..and in the housei was a maidservant. my uncle wants to marry meoff to the mad son of a builder.. ..so that he can acquirea 3-bedroom flat. he brought me up for 16 years..

..and now he wants torecover it with interest.. ..by marrying me off witha mad boy and that too this evening. i had no other optionbut to come here. all the doors had closed. if there is anybody ican call my own in this world.. ..it is pratik andthat is why i came here. i didn't want to createmisunderstanding.. ..between you and pratik. look. look,i don't want to pressurise you.

whatever decision youtake after hearing everything.. ..will be acceptable to me. mother! mother! please, pratik.we shouldn't force her. uncle, why did mother go inside? we will find out when she comes out. i suggest, before she comesout take this girl and go out.. ..and return after puttingher aboard bus number 222. uncle, i am leaving.

"peacock, you have golden beak." "peacock, you have silver wings." "the peacock pickspearls with golden beak." "peacock, go to the east." "peacock, go to the west." "on your way back goto our relatives' place." hello. hello! hello, uncle natu,i am bhardakant speaking. bhadrakant, not chandrakant.

from malad.. are you wearing the machine? the hearing aid? has it become loose? your ears must have grown big. press it with your finger. can you hear now? yes, bhadrakant from malad. yes, yes, we got my nephew married.

the wedding tookplace without a hitch. i advised him against it. nephew, don't get married. don't get married. not, death. marriage. marriage. but he didn't listen to me. he did get married. i had explained to him. nephew, marriage isa scheme devised by god.

a scheme to atone for thesins committed as a bachelor. mighty people succumbto this scheme. succumb, not disease. he will irritate me. and he asks me this. uncle, you are askingme not to marry.. ..but our ancestors havesaid that those who smile.. ..settle down in life. i said you are right, nephew.

those who smile settle down in life. but how many smiledafter settling down in life? no, uncle natu, no. the wedding was conductedin a very simple ceremony.. ..so we could not invite you. forgive us,but we still accept cash gifts. you can send it by...hello. hello! hello! everybody cuts off thephone when money is mentioned.

your tea is unique, sister. god knows when naina willlearn to make this kind of tea. she makes the tea herself,tastes it herself and throws it away. sister, what happened? looks like you are not in a good mood. why? what is this? there is not cloth andyou are running the machine. sister, shall i tell you something?

if you didn't like varsha.. ..you shouldn't havegot her married to pratik. who told you i didn't like varsha? you don't like varsha thatis why you are creating trouble. before marriage whenyou had gone shopping.. ..the poor girl had liked a red sari.. ..but you insisted thatshe should buy the green one.. why? because pratik likesgreen colour very much. of course he likes it.

that is why the househas been painted green. that is understandable. the poor girl had just enteredthe house after marriage.. ..when you started off. it is the tradition in our family. the new bride has to makea sweet dish with her own hands. it is the tradition. yes, so the poor girlwent to the kitchen. she prepared the sweetdish as best as she could.

still you criticised. it is stuck at the bottom. the clarified butterisn't coming on top. you found fault with the sweet dish. it was not made properly. but pratik liked it. he likes sweet dish made by me only. but that day pratik likedthe sweet dish made by her. pratik praised herand you didn't like it..

..and you took out youranger on the new daughter-in-law. accept the fact that varshahas entered this house.. ..as the daughter-in-lawto share your love towards pratik. stop insisting on handing himthe wallet, money and handkerchief. if you give somespace to the children.. ..the new daughter-in-lawwill give you respect. how will they respect me? you see, after marriage theyhave gone to live in a hotel.. ..for three days in mumbai itself.

i have seen this first time. is their marriage any different? i too had got married. i had come here after marriage. in this house. here only i had startedmy married life. we hadn't gone to a hotel. this is the problem withall the mothers-in-law in the world. why shouldn't my daughter-in-lawdo what i had done?

why should my daughter-in-lawenjoy what i couldn't enjoy? stop it, bhadiya. it is not a question of enjoyment. but wouldn't it be uselessexpenditure if they stay in a hotel? mother, there was no expense. oh, you are back?- yes. bless you. hello. our office staff had giftedus a three day package..

..so there was no expenditure. you should have told me earlier. i will bring water for you. mother, i will bring water. no, dear, from tomorrow onwardsyou will be doing everything. well, nephew,which hotel you were staying at? hotel park inn. three star hotel. three star? varsha, is there a suitablejob vacancy for me in your office?

why, uncle? i have never stayed at a three star. bless you,and may you soon have many children. first have one child, andthen it won't take long to have many. what are you teaching my children? alphabet. - dear, take this. pratik, take this. what happened? - nothing. dear, don't feel offendedby what i said about money.

we have lived thriftily toreach a position of comfortable life.. ..so i have the habitof counting expenses. but i wonder wouldn'tit have been better.. ..if your office staff hadgiven us cash instead of such gift? she wants to say thatthere were no room charges.. ,,but you must havespent money on food. uncle, we didn't spend on that also. was that also partof the hotel package? no, no, it was notincluded in the package.

so you didn't eat for three days? no, no, uncle, we did eat.why are you saying this? we had dinner before leavingon the evening of reception. from next day onwardsmother used to come.. ..with breakfast for pratik. to the hotel? yes. she used to come inthe morning with tea and breakfast. then she used to bringlunch in the afternoon. then she used to bringdinner in the night.

uncle, masala tea andsnacks in the morning.. ..at the three star hotel. in the afternoon full lunchand at night bread, vegetable curry.. ..and rice-lentil dish and curry. it is worth enjoying,isn't it, pratik? uncle, i am telling you honestly. mother takes very goodcare of pratik, right? daughter-in-law, did you taunt me? no, mother,i explained the fact to myself..

..that you have the priorityright on pratik and after that i have. isn't it my responsibilityto see that i don't infringe.. ..on that right even unintentionally? follow it since you have said it. i have made sweet dish. freshen up and i willtemper the lentil dish. then all of us will eat. you tell her. you tell her, i won't speak.- you tell her.

i won't, you tell her. just a minute. tell me what happened? did you have lunch outside? they had lunch outside. pratik. no, mother,it so happened that we spotted.. ..a fast food stallon our way back. - yes. so varsha felt like eating it. what? - i felt like it.

both of us felt like it. you wasted my food. i didn't sleep the whole afternoon. my hands are aching due to work. both are telling me lies. since 8 days.. stop grumbling. your food won't go waste. pack the food and give it to me.

so naina won't have to cook. yes, i will pack thefood but not for you. to take along tomorrowmorning for the journey. yes, tomorrow morning youare going on honeymoon, right? where are you going? khajuraho. - khajuraho? what was the need togo so far to buy dates? if you had asked me i wouldhave bought it from the market. bhadiya, don't you want to go home?

married men are neverin a hurry to go home. if you keep talking tohim it will go on till morning. freshen up and pack your bags. i have already packed my bag. your bag? - yes. so are you too going on honeymoon? what are you saying, bhadiya? they have to go via indore. you know jayeshbhai?my brother-in-law.

he is your uncle. i talked to him. he lives there only. he told me that we haveto stay at his house only. and his son prakashhas got his own car. so he will take us inhis car wherever we want to go. he will take them inhis car in the morning.. ..where they want to goand will bring them back at night. they will do sightseeing andthere won't be travelling expenses.

and we will stayat jayeshbhai's house.. ..so there won't be hotel expenses. then one day all of us,i mean i, your aunt and varsha.. ..will go to meena bazar. we conducted the marriage in a hurry.. ..so i couldn't giftany jewellery to varsha. dear, there the makingcharges are cheaper.. ..so we can buy a coupleof grams of gold extra. bhardrakant, what is it called?

travel cheap and do pilgrimage. varsha, what is your opinion? mother, is thereanything lacking in this? what do you mean? i mean mother, you have madea very good plan, right, pratik? no. - what? yes? - no. no. yes. yes. no. decide whether it is yes or no.

yes, and you have got the wholelife when you can go on vacation. "a pair of swans has been separated." "terrible.." she keeps the ringtonesuitable to the situation. yes, juhi, tell me. 'have you returnedfrom the hotel?' - yes. 'how did you pass thethree days?' - nicely. 'you, pratik and solitude.' no, i, pratik and mother-in-law.

what? boss has cancelled the leave? 'what leave?' don't ask, just listen to me. just a minute. mother, if i don't goto office from tomorrow.. ..they will cut one month's salary. no, no, i won't let them cut it. look, juhi, tell boss thati will attend office from tomorrow.. ..even if i have to cancelmy honeymoon for that.

'what are you saying?' cancel the honeymoon? why?' varsha. don't say anything, just listen to me. i am doing that only. right now i am inside my house. i will go out and then talk to you. right now i am in my house. i will go out and fax youall the papers right now, okay?

put the phone down, okay? varsha, will you goto office tomorrow? - yes. this is not fair. we had made such a nice programme. we hadn't, mother had. mother. mother, sorry,but your cheap travel for pilgrimage.. ..will cost me dear. my one month's salary.. - no, no. i won't let them cut it.

don't worry, i will justbe back after faxing all the papers. varsha. - enough,pratik, don't have that sad look. just now mother said thatwe have our whole life to travel. right, mother. - yes. look, i suggest sinceyou are going to indore.. ..you and mother shouldgo to khajuraho also. you can go sightseeing and have fun. varsha. varsha, listen to me. varsha. varsha!

stop shouting varsha's name. varsha has left. if you keep shouting varsha'sname she will return.. ..and then she will get angry at you. uncle, don't scare me. why are you sitting? get up and start packing your bag. sister, start packing tiffin. no, no, bhadiya, we can't go now.

you know vasudha? who is vasudha? uncle raman's daughter vasudha. she had left the housein her daughter-in-law's care.. ..and had gone for pilgrimagealong with her son. when they returnedthe daughter-in-law.. ..allowed only the son into the house. the old woman kept doingpilgrimage all her life. so? your mother fears thatit may happen exactly opposite here.

if you and your motherreturn after the tour.. ..and that girl allowsyour mother in.. ..and you may be left outto do pilgrimage all your life. hey, what are yousaying about your sister? what are you sayingabout your daughter-in-law? did i say that about varsha? i said that about vasudha'sdaughter-in-law, right? no. - yes. bhadiya,the times are very bad right now.

if i go now people willsay that the new daughter-in-law.. ..hasn't even settleddown in the house.. ..and the old womanis going on a tour. no, no, we can't do that. pratik, do one thing. cancel my anddaughter-in-law's tickets.. ..and you go alone on tour. to sumitra next door. i had given her leftover milksince we were leaving in the morning.

i will get it back. go and get it or elseshe will make curd from it. we are already facinga situation here. uncle, should i go alone on honeymoon? how can i refuse motherand how can i take her along.. ..on my honeymoon? nephew, don't feel bad,but your honeymoon is spoiled. what is my fault? - marriage. you greatest faultis that you got married.

as long as a boy is bachelor,he is called a suitable boy. when he marries,he is called a husband. and when he becomes a husband,his life is over. that's right. marriage means tug of war. from one end the mother pulls.. ..and from the otherend the wife pulls. if you take mother's sideyou will be called mama's boy.. ..and if you take wife'sside you will be called wife-crazy.

but i haven't taken anybody's side. they won't let youtake anybody's side. both will decide exactlywhose side you have taken. do you know what a husband is? - what? a husband is a ping pong ball. the mother-in-lawand daughter-in-law.. ..keep swinging the racketsopposite each other.. ..and the poor mangets hit from both sides. do you know what amarried man is? - what?

a married man is likea puffed grain of rice. only after marriage you canfind out whether he will have.. ..a happy life or an unhappy life. do you know what marriage is?- what? marriage is like a ferris wheel,a merry-go-round. a merry-go-round whichkeeps going round and round. it keeps turning tillthe man gets exhausted. "my merry-go-round keeps turning." "it makes screeching noises."

"give cash today and borrow tomorrow."- i am getting late for office. i have taken my purse,handkerchief and wristwatch.. ..so don't fight overwho will hand it to me. i must hurry.i am getting late for office. 'what happened?' my shirt button is missing. the other shirts are not ironed. someone come out and stitch the button. give it to me.

today i am going to get into trouble. pratik. - yes. i am going to stitch your button. since past 25 years ihave stitched your buttons. pratik, for the next 25 yearsi am going to stitch your buttons. tell her. you only decide whowill stitch the button. pratik, tell her that yourwife will stitch the button. before answering think ofhow i used to feed you morsels.

decide after thinking aboutthe morsels i am going to feed you. decide who is goingto stitch the button? no one. i am goingwithout wearing a shirt. pratik. - pratik. pratik, the button.. pratik, wear the shirt and then go. "i am happy.." uncle! oh, it's you?

where are you goingin salman khan's style? no, no, salman khan doesn'twear even an undershirt, right? nephew, have youforgotten to wear a shirt? i haven't forgotten,uncle, i haven't forgotten. but it will be better if i forget. uncle, i want to forget my mistake. which mistake, nephew? marriage. my biggest mistake.

this morning my shirtbutton was missing. i had just asked to stitch the button. but.. - you got into trouble? do you know why i wear on loin cloth? once a button of my pants was missing. you are lucky that you could comeout of the house in an undershirt.. ..but i? since that time i decided thati will wear only long loin cloth. what happened?

what happened, have you gone crazy? uncle, i too have decided. - what? will you wear a long loin cloth? not a long loin cloth. from now on i will wearshirts with press button only. nephew was elated becausehe found solution to one problem. but he doesn't know thatthis is only the beginning. this is just the start of love,why do you cry? just wait and watch what happens next.

"till date no one has suffered.." "..who worships god." "those who are devotedto lord krishna." "so say the vedas." oh, you have returned? why did you stop? sing on. "the lord saved prahlad.." "..and slayed hirnyakashyap." look, son, today is your birthday.

so, what do you say? happy birthday. so i had gone to the temple. here, have the offering. look, son, by your next birthday.. ..you must make me a grandmother. why? will you have to ask varsha? do ask her,but do make me a grandmother. it is your birthday so ihave prepared chickpea flour curry.. ..dry lentil curry,potato curry, stuffed snack..

..sweet dish and fried bread. all of them are my favourite dishes. your wife doesn'tknow how to prepare them. i know. i will bring the sweetdish for you to taste. tell me how it has turned out. okay. varsha!- varsha hasn't returned. it is 7 o'clock andstill she is not here. she will come.

of course she will.where else she can go? i am late. i hope pratik has returned. i am there. happy birthday. - thank you. mother. hey, my birthday gift?- what do you want? will you give me what i ask for? yes, i will. i want to become a father.

no, not on this birthday. it will be okay if ithappens by next birthday. i will. mother asked you, right? tell mother that i will makeyou a father and her a grandmother. that reminds me. do you know what i have made? - what? something your motherdoesn't know how to make. manchurian fried rice,american chop suey. i have cooked all this with my hands.

at chinese food cart? no, they taught thistoday at the cooking class. you like chinese, don't you?- yes, yes. that is why i have prepared it. eat this. pratik, taste the sweet dish. oh, wow,mother, did you make this? - yes. but this is sweet,so first fried rice. i prepared the sweet disheven though my body was aching.

i took a cut in salaryand got scolded by my boss.. ..and went to the cookeryclasses and prepared this fried rice. since past 25 yearsprakit has grown up.. ..eating sweet dish made by me. and for the next 25 yearspratik is going to grow old.. ..while eating fried rice made by me. why do you threaten aboutthe next 25 years all the time? and why do you threatenabout past 25 years all the time? pratik, eat the sweet dish.

pratik, eat fried rice first. both of you started it again. beware! you are undermy oath if you throw it out. hey, what are you doing? now you can fight.fried rice or sweet dish. happy birthday to you, pratik. ugh! hello, naina. naina! naina. naina.

naina. "your eyes are bewitching." "o fatso, your eyes are bewitching." where did the idiot go afterkeeping the phone on speaker? she heard it. darling, where had you goneafter keeping the phone on speaker? you heard 'idiot'?i had said 'darling'. yes. naina, i called up tosay that i will have dinner outside. do don't...no, naina, no.

i am not fed up of your cooking. i am fed up of cleaning the utensils. even the house helpgets one day off in a month. i am your husband. if you don't remember thencheck our wedding invitation. my name was printed onit somewhere in small letters. naina, forget about me.think about our nephew. it has been one and halfyears after his marriage. wouldn't he feel likegoing out for dinner sometimes?

yes, so both of usare going out for dinner. no, naina.you can't go out for dinner with us. the fatso is asking the reason. naina, all the hotelshave put up boards outside. dogs and naina are not allowed. hello. hello. hello. hello. get lost, you fatso. your aunt. she wanted to goout for dinner with us.

once she sits down atthe table she keeps on eating. she orders everythinglisted on the menu. once she told the waiter.. ..hey, go and bring 'the end' also. if she eats upeverything on her table.. ..she pounces onthe next table for food. then bill is so high. these days nobody givesa loan to pay hotel bills. well, you are ready.

let us go out to enjoy. we will have a nicedinner at thakarsi. tasty sweet dish.. - no! no sweet dish. - no, sweet dish? okay, no sweet dish.sweet dish cancel. then chinese fried rice? - no! uncle, don't even utterthe name of fried rice. i am fed up of both these dishes. uncle, have you ever eaten amixture of fried rice and sweet dish?

that would be craziness. yes, i am that crazyperson who has eaten it. on my birthday motherprepared a sweet dish.. ..and varsha prepared fried rice. both had a fight. eat this first. eat this first. so i.. you ate both together? - yes. crazy boy.

i will go crazy uncle,i will go crazy. i don't know what i should do. what happened, nephew? why have you becomeso serious all of a sudden? dear, tell your uncle.what is the problem? uncle, shall i tellyou honestly? - yes. i don't want to see eithermother or varsha being unhappy. i am mother's past and present. and i am varsha's present and future.

both love me a lot andi too love both of them. i don't want to hurtthem even unintentionally. i want to repay motherfor the love she showered on me. and i want to makeprovision for varsha.. ..to shower love onmy child she will bear. uncle, i want to bea link between the two.. ..not to be divided between them. look, son, we men cannotdo anything in this regard. whatever is to be doneis done by women only.

it was so much fun, wasn't it? they look surprised. both of you are together? - yes. where had both of you gone together? no, i was returningafter buying vegetables. and i was returning from office. we met on the wayso we returned together. yes, but why did bothof you laughed in chorus? i will explain uncle.

four women were at the street corner. i took the bag of vegetablesfrom mother's hands.. ..in front of them,so mother is happy. and i praised her infront of them so she is happy. pratik, how comeyou have returned early? i have to go to marine linesfor some work boss has given. boss said that sincei live at charni road.. ..i should attend to that work. varsha, give me thekey of the scooter.

why do you want the scooter? mother, i have to go to marine lines. give me that file. what happened? - nothing, mother. i have a headache. shall i apply balm? - no. shall i massage with oil? no, mother, i have to go out. shall i make a concoctionof ginger and basil?

no, mother. you see? you have a headachebut she is not bothered. mother, since godhas given us a head.. ..it is bound to ache sometimes. hear that. what's the big deal? here, take this. here is the tablet and this key. uncle, in my opinion,if the all the mothers in the world..

..stop pampering their sons,all the problems.. ..will automatically get solved. right, mother? yes, yes, you will realisewhen you face that situation. you too will have children. you too will sufferthe same fate as me. just be patient. i will see how youwill pamper your son. mother, you will seethat i won't pamper my son.

i have learnt my lessonby looking at your example. i won't keep my sontied to my apron strings. do you want to say anything? have you given him a chance to speak? i mean do speak up if you wish. you have got a chanceto speak for the first time. o god, why did you create man? and if you did create,why did you make him.. ..someone's son and someone's husband?

and if you did make him,why did you give him a head? and if you did give it,why did you make it ache? pratik, don't leave in anger. do return early, i have totell you something important, please. do take the tablet and ride thescooter carefully and slowly, okay? he went away just like that. he ignored me. - ignored? i will go and freshen up. you see, she went to thebathroom as soon as she came.

i saw it. lock it from outside.- are you crazy? did she ask you for tea? why would she? mother-in-law has theresponsibility to do everything. look at that. the bag of vegetable is dumped here. purse is dumped here. if mother-in-law commentsthen she is bad.

bhadrakant! - yes. she has brought raw mango. she must have broughtit to make pickle. can you make pickle with one mango? you are talking nonsense. bhadrakant. - yes. look, there is doctor's report also. read it. - no, no, we shouldnot read daughter-in-law's papers. read. it is in englishotherwise i would have read it.

no, i have taken avow not to read english. bhadiya, she has brought a raw mango.. ..and there is a doctor's report too. i am getting impatient. there are many reports. just a minute.- what? what is it? is it there? is daughter-in-law pregnant? wow! god, a million thanks to you.

where is your god? oh, god. god, a million thanks to you. bhadiya. bhadiya,if everything goes smoothly.. ..we will visit shri nathji.- okay. and we will undertake strictfasts on 11th of every month. - okay. you will undertake strict fast,i cannot. i will do it. what should i do?

i will go and tell sumitra. i will give the good news to sumitra. sumitra acts over smart. she will put it on facebook. so what should i do?i will tell varsha. varsha would know. it's her report. yes, varsha brought the report. wait, don't go anywhere.i will just be back. she has gone crazy.

she is elated because sheis going to be a grandmother. take this money and buy sweets.- yes. and distribute it toall on your way back. - okay. and buy varsha's favouritecashew nut sweets. what are you doing? "mother goddess arrivedon a dark night." sing songs at the baby shower. we will call you alongwith all the women. "who will ride the first horse?"- go, go. don't sing about horses.

what shall i do? yes, phone. phone. i will make phone calls. let me call up pratik. hello, pratik? listen, i am goingto be a grandmother.. ..and you are going to be a father. yes, someone who crawlswill come to our house. tell varsha that henceforthshe will not do any work.

she will stop going to office. now she has to takebed rest for nine months. yes, i will take fullresponsibilities of the house. she can tell me whatevershe feels like eating. i will prepare it for her. yes, from now on i will do dusting,washing utensils and clothes.. ..and cooking andshopping and all the work. varsha is here. talk to her. yes, pratik, thank you.

yes, other is very happy. we will talk after you come back. mother, did you call up pratik? why? - to give him good news. but i wanted to give him the news. why did you do it? i am going to be blesseswith a grandchild. i am going to be blessed withmy first grandson or granddaughter. i too am saying thesame thing, mother.

we are going to be blessedwith our first child. we are going to be blessedwith our reward for our love. i wanted to tell it to my husband,so why did you tell him? mother, this was our private moment. i wanted to see the joy on his face. i wanted to see tearsof joy in his eyes.. ..on hearing this news, but you.. but.. - enough, mother, enough. if a button is missing frompratik's shirt, you rush to fix it.

you have been robbing us ourfew moments of love and togetherness.. ..but i have never objected. i know. i know that ican't cook as well as you can. still i wanted to hearpraises from my husband.. ..even if my cooking was bad. but you have been robbingme of those few words of love.. ..still i never objected. ever since...ever sincei came here after marriage.. ..you have interfered inour private moments and have tried..

..to relive the unfulfilleddesires in your married life. enough. enough, varsha. you are crossing your limits now. if i have made a mistakeby telling my son.. ..that i am goingto become a grandmother.. ..let us decide thematter once and for all. i don't want to relive...idon't want to relive.. ..the unfulfilled desires inmy married life in your married life. i don't want to look for it.

let it be decided. you go your own wayand i will go my own way. hello, pratik, come backright now from wherever you are. no. no, either i won't livein this house or your wife won't. i will give it to her. yes, pratik, come home immediately. no. no, i won't tolerateher interference in everything. no, pratik,there is no use of explaining to her. okay. take his.

yes, what is it? no. no, immediately turnback your scooter and come home. he is coming. when he comes i will gowith bhadrakant to his house. there is no need. this is your house.you and pratik can stay here. i will make arrangements for myself. yes, so that peoplecan say that kunjabala.. ..threw out her daughter-in-law.

yes, and if you leavepeople will say.. ..that varsha threwher mother-in-law out. enough. stop it both, of you. bhadrakant,it is good that you have come. do you know what happened? i know everything. i have heard everything. there is an occasionfor joy in the house. we are going to beblessed with a child..

..and still you started to fight. you have a problem with everything. what problem do i have? the same one which every woman has. it takes 20 years for awoman to bring up her dear son.. ..and another woman comesand fools him in just 20 minutes.. ..and marries him. no mother-in-law inthis world can tolerate it. try to understand.

both of you try to understand. the poor boys is gettingfrustrated because of this. yes, bark...no i mean tell me. yes, i am his uncle speaking. uncle, what happened?- what? no, will come there right now. bhadrakant, what happened? pratik had an accident. what? - what? a truck has crashed with his scooter.

yes, tell me. he is in which hospital? yes, yes, in which ward? yes, we will be there. thank you. 'doctor...doctor, my nephew, pratik..' 'it is a major accident.' 'we will have to do operation.' 'operation?'

'so pratik...doctor,is everything okay?' 'his condition is critical.' 'we will be able to tellyou only after the operation.' 'please, doctor,do anything, but save pratik.' 'please. please.' 'i'll try my level best.' 'i will make every effort,but there is more need..' '..to pray to godthan asking my help.' "god, please have mercy."

sister, condolence meetingon pratik's death was also held today. you haven't saida word since four days. you haven't uttered even a word. sister, accept thefact that nephew has died. pratik is no longer between us. sister, speak and weepand unburden your heart. say something. say something at least. bhadrakant, how will she speak? he was the one andonly son of kunjbala.

she spent her whole life as a widow.. ..and now there is a youngwidow of her son in the house. these days the youngstersare in great hurry to get married. they don't ask their parentsand don't match horoscopes also. and who suffers? the parents. kunjabala, why didn't youthink before marrying off your son? she has claimed your son's life. what did you say? why would she claim my son's life?

my son was her husband. i am at the end of mylife but she was to spend.. ..her whole life with pratik. and she is carrying s child. my son pratik's child. when a woman is pregnanthow can she wish.. ..that another mother'sson should die? if a son dies at young agepeople blame the daughter-in-law.. ..but if the young daughter-in-lawdies nobody blames the son.

life and death arein the hands of god. what is varsha's fault? come on, everybody leave. get up. leave. go. look, kunjbala..- i will cut off your tongue.. ..if you criticize varsha. leave. come on. leave. let us go. come on. i don't want your fakesympathy or condolences.

leave. go away. no, no, bhadrakant. tell all the relatives notto come to express condolences. if anybody criticises varshai will break their faces. stop it, sister, stop it. i have been through this, bhadiya. i have been through all this. i don't want anybodyto abuse this girl. what was wrong in what they said?

wasn't i the causeof your son's death? what difference wouldit have made whether the news.. ..of my pregnancywas given by you or me? neither you nor iwould have got enraged. it is my fault. you lost your son because of my fault. it was neither your fault nor mine. the time was not favourable. now we have to see that ourrelations don't get soured by it.

look, pratik was alreadyborn when i became a widow. your child is still in your womb. you can get the childaborted if you wish. sister, what are you saying? i now, bhadrakant. i know very well how difficultit is to bring up a child.. ..in the absence of the father. it is difficult topass each and every moment. i don't want to force suchdifficult moments on this girl.

but what if i want togive birth to this child? that decision too will be yours only. and if you want to entrustto me the child after it is born.. ..and if you want to start anew life you are free to do that also. when you were widowedpratik was only one year old. why didn't you entrusthim to someone else's care.. ..and got married again? answer me. answer me,mother, why didn't you marry again..

..taking along pratik also? please answer me! if my becoming a widow is arepeat of the history of this house.. ..then the history ofthis house will be repeated.. ..by bringing up my childjust like pratik was brought up. i will bring up my child. look, varsha..- uncle, your sister is very smart. she is very smart. she wants to havethe cake and eat it also.

mother, till date i haven'tcome across another woman.. ..as cunning as you. when i give my child toher she will not remain lonely.. ..and when i get marriedshe will be free of me. but mother i am telling you,i will give my child to you.. ..but i won't go anywhere. i will stay with you. it is your responsibility tobring up my child and take care of me. it is yours, mother, it is yours.

girl, learn to control your tears ifyou want to have the responsibility. sorrow gives you the strength to live. don't let it flow away with tears. sister, what are you doing? bhadrakant,won't i have to secure the future.. ..for my unborn grandchild? i am still strong. i will restart the tiffin service. girl, take this.

bhadrakant, put up this board outside. pratik tiffin service. girl, clean all these tiffin boxes. hello, meenaben,i am kunjbala speaking. didn't you tell me that you needa tiffin service for your orphanage? yes, i have restartedthe tiffin service. not i have, mother. we have. yes, yes, we have. i and my daughter-in-law.

yes, yes,meenaben, less oil and chillies.. ..because it is food for children. i won't give you a cause for complain. the tiffin boxes will be delivered.. ..at 10 o'clock tomorrow morning. god, you can testus as much as you want. if you are god we tooare humans created by you. we may be facing hardships.. ..but we haven't lost courage.

our dreams and desiresare still there. you may test us we are ready. "lord krishna is passingthrough my street." "he is playing a flute." "i woke up and wentto look at krishna." sister! what are you doing exactly? i am trying to open the windows. the breeze will come in.

i thought you had atiff with daughter-in-law.. ..so you were goingto jump off from 25th floor. why should i jump off? you would rather pushyour daughter-in-law. bhadiya,what nonsense are you talking? mother, mother, mother! look.. varsha called me thrice from outside. looks like she is annoyed.

mother. - here i am. what is this? - a box of sweets? what! varsha, i have got diabetesand yet you brought a box of sweets. don't you feel ashamed? mother, you shouldfeel ashamed. - why? the watchman gave me this box. - what? yes. he said that dailyan empty box of sweets.. ..falls down from yourmother-in-law's room.

let me see. look, uncle, there is sweetsyrup in this but not the sweet balls. you ate them, didn't you? are you denying it? so how come you havesyrup stains on your sari? i had forbidden him. i had forbidden him, andstill bhadiya brought sweet balls.. ..and forced me to eat them. liar. you are a big liar.

you had eaten them yourself. i had brought 250 gramsof sweet 'jalebis' (funnel cake). nobody can win againstyou brother and sister. mother, is this the way to behave? we supply diet food all over the city. we make everybody health conscious. but we, despite being theowner of pratik food supply.. ..are ignoring our own heath. right. sister, those days are gone..

..when we used to live in a tenement. since past many years wehave shifted to this penthouse. the days are past whenyou used to prepare lunchboxes. both of you are now theowners of pratik food supply.. ..and i am the ceo. we are supplying 2000 foodpackets daily all over mumbai. we are supplying dietfood all over the city. we supply sugar-freesweets to everybody. and every day you stealand eat sweets from our fridge.

how can i steal and eat sweets? she locks the fridgeand gives the key to sakharam. rubbish. you don't believe it?i will prove it to you. sakharam! - yes, madam. doesn't varsha lock thefridge and give the keys to you? give the key to uncle. okay, take this. sakharam. - yes, sister.

give uncle the duplicatekey which mother got made.. ..and gave to you. sorry, madam, the secret is out. the secret is out. the secret of sister'smisdeeds is out. did you see, uncle? she has bribed the servants. aren't you worried about me? what if something happens to you?

who will fight with me then? who will nag me? don't worry about that. i am not going to die that easily. i am going to have a life. this old woman has eaten your food.. ..and she is not goingto die without eating.. ..your daughter-in-law's pizza. i want to witness the fightbetween you and your daughter-in-law.

she was boasting that she willtreat her daughter-in-law very nicely. i don't want to see howyou treat your daughter-in-law. i want to see how yourdaughter-in-law treats you this boy is just too much. what boy? my son and her grandson, samar. oh, i thought you thinkof me as a boy at this age. since past 5 days thisboy has not been in contact. he hasn't called up.

he hasn't sent even an email. no one is picking up thephone in his apartment in america. he hasn't sent even simple sms. uncle, this is the limitof being irresponsible. sister, she is worried about her son. why are you laughing? bhadrakant, there was a timewhen i used to wait for pratik.. ..and this woman used to laugh at me. why are you standingat the window waiting for him?

he will return when his office closes. now she must be realisingwhat waiting for a son means. only two persons canunderstand the worry.. ..in the eyes of the onewaiting for a son's return. one is a mother andthe other is the window. because the waiting eyes alsolook at the street with a fixed gaze.. ..just like the bars of the window. bhadiya, she used to mockme when i used to wait for my son. look at her now.

how worried she is whenher son didn't call up? had i been so worriedi wouldn't have sent.. ..the apple of my eyeto america for 4 years. uncle, i wouldn't havesent him to america for studying. i am telling you honestly. while sending samar therei haven't displayed weakness. bhadrakant, she hasn't letthe emotions show on her face.. ..but i am not unaware ofthe tears she had kept under control. varsha, when children arewith us they cause us headache..

..but when they go far awaythey become a pain in the heart. "oh, mother. my mother..""dear.." - samar. it is samar's call. son, where are you? since 5 days thereis no news about you.. ..and since past 5 nightsyour mother hasn't slept. son, i lie awake waiting for you. look, your grandmother is laughing.. but you know son thatyou mother doesn't feel good.. ..unless she talksto you at least once a day.

don't you now, that your mother.. i know, mother,i am your life and i am your faith. mother, i know that i amyour life's thrill and excitement. i am the music andmelody in your life. i am all the seasons in yourlife and your reason for living if i am not there you don't exist. and if you don't hear myvoice once in a day, you get fever. what say? not fever, panic. panic.

panic. panic. - panic. whatever. sorry, mom, sorry. don't be sorry andimprove yourself. - okay. son. why didn't youinform that you were coming? come on, mom,you say that i am like a hurricane.. and a hurricane can comeany time and leave any time. what do you say, kunju? oh, my, my, look at you. look at you. the youngest and the sweetestgirlfriend in my life.

your face is perfectly rosyand your eyes are waiting for me. come on, cheer up.your grandson has arrived.. ..to listen to your gujarati songs,to get a massage from you.. ..to take you for shoppingand to feed you chocolates.. ..secretly from mom. your grandson has arrived. sweetheart, what happened? son, when you cameand stood before me.. ..for a moment it felt asif pratik was standing before me.

my heart skipped a beat. i went back 25 years in time. look, don't go anywhere now, okay? stay here only. i want to live the presentwith you as my grandson.. ..and the past with my son,both at the same time. son, be happy and make yourmother a mother-in-law very soon. sister, did you bless himwith happiness or suffering? why do you say so?

how will one man live happilyamong three women in this house? exactly, granduncle. thank you. thank you, granduncle. thanks a lot becauseyou didn't tell them.. ..that i was arriving today. so you knew it, uncle? yes, i knew it,but grandnephew had threatened me.. ..that if i told youthat he was arriving.. ..he will find a fat oldwoman and force me to marry her.

with great difficulty ihave got out of naina's clutches. look at that. this boy wantsto marry off his granduncle.. ..when he himselfis of marriageable age. come on, grandmother, my marriage? of course.your hotel management course is over. you already have 2years of job experience. so it is your responsibilityto handle the business of.. ..pratik food supply,and along with that.. ..and it will be your wife'sresponsibility to look after the house.

wife? - yes. you must be joking. - please, samar. no, no, no. not at all. not at all. not at all. not at all. hey, have you too chosena girl just like your father did? look, granduncle. what should i look at? is it something like thelive and licence relationship? bhadrakant!

i know. i read a lotabout it in newspapers. these days, especially in america,live and licence relationships.. ..are very much the trend. a man and a womanlive under one roof.. ..like husband and wifewithout getting married. they live togetheras long as they like it.. ..otherwise it is good-bye. they live like husbandand wife as long as they like. when they can't adjustthey become brother and sister..

..and separate. did you understand whatlive and licence relationship is? yes, i am your spousewithout actually marrying you. samar, have you done this? no, grandmother, not at all. there is nothing like that. really? then get marriedas per your mother's wish. samar, a married man canrun the business in a better way. it is easy to takecare of the country..

..but it is very difficultto take care of the household. but, mom, i..- you will have to marry. understand one thing. a man who can handle his wife can.. ..handle anything in the world. grandmother,i don't want to handle anybody. get married. - no. samar, mr.jobanputra is our business associate. he has a daughter.

who? mansi? - yes. wow, she is such a nice girl. look, son, i was not luckyin respect of my daughter-in-law.. ..but at least letyour mother be lucky. what? mother. she is so beautiful. when she wears traditionaltie and dye sari.. ..she looks like a bombshell. she is very beautiful.

very beautiful? beauty queen. no beauty queen for me, please. samar, i like that girl. - yes. and the most important thing is that.. ..the girl has good rapportwith your grandmother.. ..so there won't beany problem in the house. look, son, i am not forcing you. if you don't like that girlwe will look for another girl.

but i am sure that youwill like that girl very much. and if you like her we willget you engaged within 15 days. and marriage within one month. we have already decidedon the venue for reception. and the menu also. on the very next day of your wedding.. ..you will leave forswitzerland on your honeymoon. wonderful, nephew, wonderful. switzerland! you are lucky.

direct to switzerland for honeymoon. in our family since 7generations no one has gone.. ..beyond mahabaleshwar for honeymoon. eating strawberry. excuse me. hello. pratik foodsupply ceo speaking. which mrs. choksi? are you out of your mind? look, there are two mrs.choksi in our house.

one is g. s. kunjbala choki.. ..and the other is g.s. varsha choksi. both of them are standingright before my eyes. which mrs. choksi you.. you don't know what g. s. is? g. s. means similar to ganga. a gujarati woman who becomes a widow.. ..and whose vermiliondot is rubbed off.. ..and whose weddingbangles are broken..

..and whose shadow is inauspicious.. ..is called g. s. saying similar toganga is quite long.. ..so in short they are called g. s. how can i be a mrs.? i am my naina's mister. yes, she is dead. now i am happy. in short i am a male g. s. yes. now tell me what do you want?

really? oh! okay, okay, i will put down the phone. i will tell you. nephew, where is your mobile? it is here only. it is on silent mode. oh, god! 25 missed calls! all of them are fromgirgaon police station. you will have to go there right now. but why? - why?

for that you will notonly have to steel your heart.. ..but will also haveto give it extra protection. samar has alreadygot married in america. and the mrs. choksi at girgaonpolice station is his wife. granduncle! go and handle thesituation over there.. ..and i will handlethe situation over here. what happened? are you stunned? sister, why are you laughing?

accept the fact thatsamar got married in america. bhadrakant,she has to accept the fact not i. it is funny. she was dreaming ofmarrying off her son.. ..bur her son hasshattered her dreams. enough! - you didn't like it? himesh reshammiya has sung it. sing the wedding songswhen samar returns. okay.

i am feeling hurt and bothof you are singing wedding songs? mother, what is making you so happy? i am feeling very happy onseeing the irritation on your face. bhadiya, my son had givenme a chance to conduct his wedding. her son has robbedher of that chance also. i know. i know it, mother. varsha. - yes. call up jobanputra and inform him. what, mother?

won't you have torefuse mansi's proposal? didn't you want samar to marry her? oh. what will i tell them? how will i refuse them? in the same way i had conveyed.. ..refusal of bharti'sproposal to bhavna. at that time i had lost face,now you will lose face. look, mother..- varsha, do you realise now.. ..how much embarrassmenti had to face?

look, mother.. what happened now? there is a differencebetween you and me. i had accepted the proposaland was facing embarrassment. you are facing embarrassmentwithout accepting the proposal. bhadiya, what are you thinking? sister, i am wonderingwhat will kind of girl samar has brought from america? samantha fox, madonna, julia.

has samar married a white girl? then we will have togo on pilgrimage all our life. the four holy places? world tour. will you accompany us on pilgrimage.. ..or will you stay here withyour golden haired daughter-in-law? both of you don't try to scare me. sister, we are assumingshe could be a white girl. - yes. she could be a black girl also.

what are you singing? "zinga la la ho, zinga la la ho." what do you call them in english? negro. negro. no, this will be a girl,we can't call her negro. negress. sister, a negress. it sounds like a tigress. uncle, stop it. enough of it.

what is enough? this is love.love. - of your love. - true. isn't it said that a sleepyperson doesn't mind a hard bed. a thirsty person doesn'tmind dirty water. a hungry person doesn'tmind stale food. love doesn't mind caste or creed. the groom has arrived. "the grooms elders aresitting in the wedding pavilion." "the guests are sittingin the wedding pavilion."

enough. didn't you like this song? - no. sunidhi chauhan has sung this song. what is this? - wedding song. marriage song verses.. where were you? since past half houri have been calling you.. ..but you are notpicking up the phone. you are not answeringmy sms and who is marie?

my wife. why did the police detain her? nothing, mom. she was going by a taxi. - okay. the driver was drivingthe taxi at very slow speed. in her anger she threwout the taxi driver.. ..and she herself startedto drive the taxi. obviously, she is used to drivethe car on the left side in the u.s. she drove the taxistraight into no entry..

..and crashed with someone's car. what next? - there was a scene. then she began toargue with the police. during the argument nobodycould understand her english.. ..so they took he raway. so you simply lefther there and came back? no, i have brought her with me. where is she? bring her. bring her in quickly.

both the mothers-in-laware impatient.. ..to meet the new daughter-in-law. just a minute. let me goand bring the daughter-in-law. granduncle? wonderful, son. how does she look? come. - okay. "yeah, yeah, yeah." hello, everybody.

everybody is shaken here. what? - there is a problem. listen, shit. - no, no. sit, sit. sit down. is this your wife? we had met first at a zoo. at a zoo. you must haveforgotten to lock the cage. oh, she looks tobe from a poor family. she is wearing such short clothes.

listen, don't worry. you will get food,clothes and shelter at our place. god is generous with us.we have got lots of money. she has got 10 timesmore money than us. oh, she is from a rich family. so we must maintain relations. come on introduce her to all of us. "the new daughter-in-law.." okay, okay.

listen, let me do the introductions. introductory rituals. - okay, okay. starting with husband. your husband. uncle, she knows mw. okay, look at this photograph.. your husband's father. lookalike just like seeta aur geeta. myself granduncle. come and meet me. granduncle.

bata granduncle. your husband's granduncle. your husband's father's uncle. granduncle. - okay. she is your husband's father's wife.your husband's mother. your mother-in-law. she is 'moti' not fat lady. my bigger sister. your husband's father's mother.

your mother-in-law's mother-in-law. everything lost. i am lost. bhadiya, she will get confused. look, i am yourmother-in-law's mother-in-law. samar's grandmotherand your grandmother-in-law. what? - now she is confused. the elder of the house. bhadiya, she willthink it is potato balls. no snack. jain. banana balls.

grandmother-in-law. sit, please. - okay. look, mom. listen, mom, i am sorry. don't be sorry, samar. you don't deserve it. did you think i will refuseto give consent for your marriage? had you given me just one phone call.. ..we would have comethere to attend your wedding. you didn't even inform your mother.

i agree. i agree thati have given you freedom.. ..to take importantdecisions of your life.. ..but that doesn'tmean that you take.. ..such an important decisionand don't even inform me. it was an emergency, mom. what emergency? medical emergency,mom, she is pregnant. samar, pregnant?- yes, and i don't want her to abort. it is third month running.

bless you, my son, bless you. lord, your ways are mysterious. bhadiya, i am going toearn interest on interest. compound interest. varsha. varsha,the present generation is very fast. two years after your marriagei had to make a request to pratik.. ..to make me a grandmother. you just got newsof your son's marriage.. ..and within six monthsyou will become a grandmother.

mother, i know that. what is the name? - samar. i asked her name. - sonia. sonia. speak. speak. - okay. what is your name? - sonia. doesn't she have a full name? what? - full name. full name. oh, sonia roberts. roberts?

oh, god. - oh, jesus. just a minute. so is she a christian? yeah, that is christian. speak on. your mom is gujarati. varsha, she too ishalf-gujarati just like you. mother is 'dhokla'and father is burger. look, but i can't speak gujarati. you can't? i have been practicingsince a long time.

i will greet all of you in gujarati. no, no. please, let me do it. hello, mom, how are you? grandmother, you are very sweet. granduncle, you are nice. sister, she has changedeverybody's gender. we will have to admit herto a gujarati medium school.. ..otherwise she willspoil our gujarati also.

i know that all ofyou must be very angry.. ..because we got married. sorry, but the situation demanded it,grandmother. we had no option. i told sam that wedon't need to get married. really? so why did you do it? because of him. i told him that iwill raise the child. you don't need to takethe problem of getting married.

trouble. - what? trouble. yeah, grandmother, trouble. in case you don't want totake the trouble of getting married. i told him that just likeyour mother cared for you.. cared for? cared for? is he a human or a puppy? forget it.you won't be able to speak like that. anyway, i mean big, big.brought him up.

single-handedly. all by herself. i really appreciate you. and you too, grandmother. he told me the story. that his dad expired andthat tiffin making in tenement. now this penthouse. lots and lots hard work. i really respect you. i have great respect for you.

sam told me that if i becomepregnant and he doesn't marry me.. ..his mom will be very angry. and his grandmotherbelieves in indian culture. she would kill him. i agreed to marry him for your sake. for my sake. he even made me promisethat i should come to india.. ..to stay with you. he really loves you a lot.

he loves you very much. more than me and my child. lots and lots more. it's a request.please don't get angry on him. see, we are really very sorry. for our marriage andpregnancy also. please. girl, come here. - yes. you became pregnant before marriage. didn't your parentssay anything to you?

they didn't say anything. it makes no difference to them. your mom and dad? they are divorced. annulment of marriage. annulment of marriage? did they throw shoes at you? no, actually i have2 fathers and 6 mothers. sister, this girl is fatal.

2 fathers and 6 mothers? oh, mothers. oh, mom. obama. we get fed up with one wife. how did her father manage to handle 4? wait, wait, wait, i will explain. her mother married her father,mr. roberts. both got divorced after she was born. then her mom married again,so she has 2 fathers. right? yes and my first fathermarried six times.

first mom was my mom.she was gujarati. good. second one was greek,third one irish, fourth one italian.. ..fifth one was swiss andsixth latest mom is again gujarati. wow. wow, your fathershould be given an oscar award. he started from gujaratand after going on a world tour.. ..he came back togujarat and settled down. mom, grandmother,what do we have to do now? you have done so much,what more do you want to do?

no, i mean do we have to stayat home should we go to a hotel? go to a hotel. i mean to say that go to thehotel and return with your luggage. thanks, mom. samar, samar, she is pregnant. i am going to earn my interest. mother is going toearn compound interest. this girl has given hera motive to live for 100 years. she is yours and i will take theresponsibility of the unborn child.

we. - ours. thank you. thank you so much. you have accepted me. but before i come to stayhere i want to make an announcement. come on, everyone. come on, fast. come together. together. together. it sounds like an african song.together. together. all of us were sitting separately.

she is calling us together. nearer. nearer. okay, i want to clear twothings before i come to stay here. number one,i am going to wear these clothes only. the poor girl has broughtonly one set of clothes. no, not that way. i mean i am going to wearthese type of clothes only. i don't feel comfortablein indian dresses. give something to her for comfort.

i had tried that also. churidar dog. not dog, it is kurta. a shirt. shirt, shirt, shirt. i had worn it but it feltas if someone had tied my legs. and then i triedthe rolling thing. sado. not sado, it is sari. sari. it is not good. it felt empty.

uncle. stroke. granduncle. keep away. don't touch me. speak. so, i am going to wearthis type of clothes only. decide whether youwant to keep me or not. we will keep you. thank you, grandmother.

but the second matter is very serious. what is it? granduncle, before coming here.. ..i had watched lots of hindi serials. didn't you have any other work? all of them had the same story. mother-in-law and daughter-in-lawboxing over the son. fighting, not boxing. fighting.

to avoid that i want to makea deal with you, mother-in-law. deal? what kind of deal? that sami belongs to us equally. fifty-fifty. neither you nor i have a bigger share. i won't interfere inyour and sami's relations.. ..and you should not interferein my and sami's relations. then there will beno problems and no fights. so tell me,do you accept my deal, mother-in-law?

very good, girl. clear demarcation of rightsbefore forging relation. that i should notinterfere between you two.. ..and you should not interferebetween the two of us? our generation didn'tknow such accounting.. ..but it is said that new generation,new game and new idea. i accept your deal, daughter-in-law. it's a done deal, mother-in-law. yes, dear. go.

go to the hotel andreturn with your luggage. and uncle, you too go withthem and settle the hotel bill. what are you waiting for? you go. you come, granduncle. you are standing in my way. move. i will be back. she is going to makeme forget whatever gujarati.. ..i had learned in school.

narsinh mehta, do not forgive her. come back soon. bye. welcome, varsha. welcome to the worldof mothers-in-law. thank you, mother. mother, what happened? varsha, you have got ptomoted. from being a daughter-in-lawyou have become a mother-in-law.. ..and with that youhave lost your mind.

why, mother? you have made a very bigmistake by accepting sonia. you are going to build relationson your daughter-in-law's conditions.. ..but your son samaris the base for that. by bringing the daughter-in-lawand the heir into the house.. ..at the same time,your son has surpassed my son. but looking at sonia it doesn'tlook like your daughter-in-law.. ..can surpass my daughter-in-law. but we will see.

the bugle has been blown. let us see who wins. your daughter-in-lawor my daughter-in-law. no, no, no. because of you.. ..everything hashappened because of you. why because of me? everything happened because of you. it was your fault, sami. it was your fault, sonia.

fault, volt, look...what is this? granduncle, i say.. you are saying.. look, he was jogging.. you were? granduncle.. she is saying.. i was doing. both of us were jogging.

you were jogging. it is plural.both of us were jogging.. ..when she insistedon boarding a local train. at daybreak? not at daybreak, in the morning. what is she saying? she insisted onboarding a local train. so i took her to the station. i made her stand beforethe ladies' compartment.

i told her to get in assoon as the train arrives. - okay. the train arrived. - okay. she got scared on seeing the crowd. she caught my hand. we got pushed by the women behind us.. ..and i entered the ladies'compartment along with her. in a local train? i have never done that.did you enjoy it? they were fisher women.

i was wondering whythe whole house is stinking. listen, granduncle, this is nothing. listen to more of it. i told her, sonia, save me. do you know what she told me? - what? i don't know this brother. sonia! you call your husband as your brother? i got confused on seeingthe fat fisher women.

those fat fisher womenwere ready to beat me. did they beat you?where did they hit you? i can't see any marks. no, i escaped. luckily i got downat the next station. tell me whose fault it is? the girl is at fault. exactly. even after allthis happened you scolded me. uncle, what do i do?

son, there is no pointin asking this question now. you are already married to her now. had you asked me yearsago what you should do.. ..before your marriage,i would have told you.. ..don't seek my helpif you repent after marriage. don't tell me if you haveproblems in your marriage. right now you are sayingthat i will treat you like a queen. don't tell me if aftermarriage she treats you badly. our love is like a silk thread

don't tell me if later thatthread is used to hang clothes to dry. very nice words but icouldn't understand anything. she is very expensive. sonia.- yes, mom. morning. morning, dear.come to your room, i have some work. okay. coming. slowly. how manytimes have i told you? you are three months pregnant. slowly.

sorry, mom. slowly. slowly. coming, mom. slowly, slowly, coming, mom. from where have youbrought this dinosaur? who says that dinosaurs are extinct? a few eggs must have survived. you have hatched one in my house. why are you sitting? get up. go to your room and have a bath.freshen up.

why are you walking slowly? are you pregnant? go. this old woman is goingto kill me some day. what are you doing in my room? i didn't see you sincemorning so i went to meet you. we had gone for jogging. i am going to take bath. sakharam,samar is coming in for a bath. is sakharam going to give him a bath?

when did you come? half an hour back, but whatwere you doing in the boy's room? did samar go for a bath? - yes. bring it here. hurry up. thief! thief! thief! thief! thief!thief! - where is the thief? you are the thief. shut up. don't you feel shame?

sister, don't you feel shame? you are stealing thenew daughter-in-law's bag. by god's grace youhave got enough money. where do you want togo wearing short clothes? goa? what are you waiting for? go. go. what was in the bag? samar's clothes.

all the three women threwhim out with his clothes. i haven't thrown him outof the house with his clothes. i have sent all his clothesto the laundry for washing. all the clothes to the laundry? except for this shirt. i will explain to you. look, it has been a weeksince sonia arrived. - yes. till now there hasn't beena fight between her and varsha. oh, so you are unhappy about that.

no, no, i am happy. but there is a problemif there is no fight.. ..between the mother-in-lawand the daughter-in-law. if they keep everythingbottled up in their minds.. ..one day a volcanowould erupt suddenly. instead of that if minorfights keep taking place.. ..the mother-in-lawwould become wise.. ..and the daughter-in-lawwould become sensible. about what?

how to treat herdaughter-in-law in future. in fact,bhadrakant, every mother-in-law.. ..trains her daughter-in-lawto become a future mother-in-law. i don't want to rob soniaand varsha of that opportunity. good morning, grandmother. good morning. she sat on the shirt. how is my dear child? - fine. where had you gone?- in the danger zone.

to her mother-in-law's room. you understood varsha very soon. sonia! - coming, sami. hey, wait. come here. his mother has givenhim such a nice name. samar. why do you call him sami? it sounds like tommy. sonia! - coming.

where are all my clothes? samar is searching for hisclothes but apart from this shirt.. ..none of his otherclothes are in the house. only this shirt is there.oh, all its buttons are missing. i removed them. you removed them? yes. now he will shout forstitching buttons to his shirt. from this side varsha willcome with needle and thread. from that side sonia willcome with needle and thread.

then there will bea fight between the two. when there is a fight varshawill realise how a mother feels.. ..when the new bride encroacheson the mother's turf. grandmother,all my clothes have been stolen. i mean pants andother things are there.. ..but all the shirtsand t shirts have been stolen. a female thief with spectacleshas broken into the house. no, i mean they were stolen. no, no, dear, they are not stolen.

i have sent all the clothesto the laundry for washing. so what do i wear now? she took pity on youand has kept one shirt.. ..with all the buttons removed. i mean they fell off. how can all the buttonsfall off at the same time? by mistake sister sat on it. what do i do now? call out.

call out your mother and your wife. whoever loves you morewill stitch the buttons. is it so? - yes, son. in a few minutes it willbe decided what will get the needle. buttons or you? shout. okay. mom, sonia,whoever loves me more will come out.. ..and stitch allthe buttons on my shirt. mom, sonia!

what is it, son?why are you shouting? mom, all the buttonsof my shirt are missing. please stitch them on. i won't stitch them. sister, she refused. sonia is your wife. ask her. does it mean youwon't stitch them? mother, i have stitchedthem for 25 years. now it is sonia's turn.

son, while stitching the button,the husband and wife.. ..get a few moments for romance. while stitching the buttons,eyes gaze into each other.. ..and breaths mingle. such moments bring a differentkind of joy and happiness. how romantic, mom. and i don't want torob sonia of this joy.. ..so sonia will stitch the button. right, mother?- yes.

okay. sonia,come out quickly. coming! coming. why did you come,wretched girl? what happened, sami? just now i was relaxing. relaxing? you came justnow and wanted to relax? yes. now tell mewhy were you shouting? all the buttons of yourhusband's shirt are missing.. ..and the poor man is confused.

stitch the buttons of his shirt. sister, she too refused. what? - she refused. she refused? it is your mother-in-law's orderthat you should stitch the buttons. is that so? tell my mother-in-law thati don't know how to stitch buttons. you will have tolearn to stitch buttons. why should i learn to stitch buttons?

stitching buttons isa different kind of fun. who said so?- your mother-in-law said so. how stupid? sami, what is the joyand fun in stitching buttons? romance, baby, romance. - what? that brings romance. titanic button. listen, sami, i haven'tmarried you to stitch buttons.. ..and i am not going to do all this.

wear another shirt. all the shirts havebeen sent to laundry. okay, still i will not stitch them. sonia, who will stitchbuttons to his shirt? you will stitch them. he is your husband,you should stitch it. he is your son also,so you too should stitch it. and if you don't want tostitch it he can buy a new shirt. sonia, a new shirt insteadof stitching a button?

mother, should you spoil my sleepfor the sake of stitching a button? is sleep important? is the button important? go. go and buy a new shirt. no, make her stitchbuttons on this shirt. sami, she had said that shewill not interfere in our life. i too am saying that i don'twant to interfere in your life. stitch the button. sorry, i am not goingto stitch the button.

sorry, i too won't stitch them. i will go without wearing a shirt. sami! - hey! can you go half-dressed like this? ladies! don't tear the shirt. a fight did take place. we had a fight for stitching a button. they fought for notstitching a button.

but there was a fight. bhadiya, the generations change,ideas change.. ..circumstances change butthe natures of mothers-in-law.. ..and daughters-in-lawwill never change. whichever generation mother-in-lawand daughter-in-law fight.. ..but the man always faces the heat. sonia hasn't settled till now. neither with mom nor with india. anyways, i will keep you updated.

and, don't get trappedby getting married. and if you do get married iwill dance so much at your wedding.. ..that everybody will be amazed. nephew, in whose weddingdo you want to dance? my friend. he is in a live-inrelationship in the u.s. and he is going tomarry the same girl. wonderful, wonderful. live-in relationship.

your generation is lucky. you live in live-in relationship. i wish we had the benefitof this in our time. then we wouldn't have been born. all of you would have separated.. ..and marriage institutionwould have vanished. had that happened,every man would have been happy.. ..and every womanwould have been unhappy. just think.

if there were no men,who would women have scolded? who would they have glared at? to whom would they have said shut up? what are you saying, granduncle? son, happy birthday to you. bless me, granduncle. son, don't touch my feet. there is not muchdifference in our ages. not much, just this much.

of hair and baldness. i am joking. here is your gift. wow, granduncle. lighter? - lighter. i know that you smoke secretly. don't tell mom andgrandmother. please. i won't tell them. i won't tell mom and grandmother. they only bought it.

what is this, granduncle? joking. joking. "on the bank of the high pond.." happy birthday, darling. darling? thank you, sweetie pie. it's okay, sweetie pie. the old woman is flirting. come on, eat the offerings.

thank you, thank you. son, it is your birthday, so imade special offerings at the temple. sakharam. take this. bhadrakant, just like pratik,he too likes sweet dish.. ..snacks, curry and all that. i will ask your motherto prepare all that. i have asked soniato prepare all that. why sonia?

you see, mother, you orderedme and i ordered my daughter-in-law. uncle, shouldn't i enjoymy authority as a mother-in-law? mom, you are using yourauthority on the wrong person. do you know i was admittedto a hospital in the u.s. for 10 days? because i ate veg friedrice cooked by sonia. the food is ready. fried bread, curry. - curry? dry lentil, snack and sweet dish.- sweet dish. tomorrow all of uswill have upset stomachs.

i have brought snackand sweet dish for tasting. okay, tell me who willgo to the hospital first of all? who will taste it first of all? mother, why should i be the first one? your daughter-in-law hascooked food for the first time. and you want to enjoybeing a mother-in-law, right? sonia. - just a minute. sonia, it is true thati am your mother-in-law.. ..but my mother-in-law is stillaround so she has the first right.

uncle, how was that? abracadabra. sonia, just a minute. all of us are family members. we should give thefirst chance to our guest. serve bhadrakant first. you are forcing me. sonia, statue. i have taken a vow notto eat even a morsel of food..

..until my sister eats food. since when?- one and half second back. now decide who will taste it first. my mother-in-lawand grandmother-in-law.. ..will taste it at the same time. you will taste the snackand you will taste the sweet dish. looks like she isusing a chinese word. she wants to say taste it. hey, this snack is from trupti farsan.

and this sweet dishis from sheetal devi. my god, they found out. but sonia, hadn't i toldyou to prepare these dishes? mom, had i prepared all theseyou would have landed in a hospital. hadn't i told you that idon't know how to cook all this? but since past 3 days wasn'ti teaching you how to cook? exactly. i don't understand whyshe was forcefully teaching me? mom. - not forcefully, son.

i taught her with much love. and all these areyour favourite dishes. my mother-in-law taughtme and it is my duty to teach her. why should i learn? for tradition, dear. if the mother-in-law doesn'tteach her daughter-in-law.. ..the entire traditionand customs will become extinct. the sweet dish at weddings,and festival specific dishes.. ..will just become memories.

and dear, even if youhad prepared tasteless dishes.. ..all of us would have praised it. cooking food for your husband.. ..stitching the button on his shirt.. ..such small things show thewife's love and care for her husband. son, explain to her. you know what, mom? you are too emotional. we are living in the 21st century.

and a husband who seekslove in food is called an idiot. yes. in the u.s.i have never cooked food for sami.. ..and still there is love between us. and if there was no lovehow did this baby happen? grandmother, please tell her thati am aware of my responsibilities. sorry, sonia, but you are notat all aware of your responsibilities. mom. this girl is in the4th month of her pregnancy. i have admonished her so many times..

..and yet she is wearing heels. is this called awarenessof responsibility? sonia. - i'm sorry. look, mom, i was changingso i wore them to try out. i forgot to take them off. i know how to take care of myself. dear, had you known how to take care.. ..you wouldn't have goneto a disco day before yesterday. my god, so are you spying on me?

mind your tongue, sonia. don't forget that youare the daughter-in-law.. ..of the owner of pratik food suppy. you may not know butpeople recognise you. since past three days iknew about this but i kept quiet. i thought let it be, but youare carrying the heir to this family.. ..in you womb and you cannottake that thing for granted. fine. i won't takeanything for granted. from now on i will do andeat and drink only hat you dictate.

enough, sonia. did you see how she is reacting? don't you want to say anything to her? what do i say? what do i say and to whom? mom, if i say anythingto you it will hurt you. if i say anything toher she will feel hurt. you know what? it was my biggest mistaketo bring sonia from the u.s.

son, what are you saying? yes, grandmother. i should have divided mytime between india and america.. ..on six-monthly basis. i am trying to becomea bond between you two.. ..and you are trying to break me? son, you should not say that. yes, granduncle, yes. both are important for mebut i am not important to anybody.

samar, it is not like that. mom, if it is not likethat then what is it like? always...always the manis at the receiving end.. ..between his mother and his wife. i don't understandwhy we always have to pay.. ..and we have to suffer? i don't understand why? samar. samar, don't leave in anger. samar!

dear, what is theuse of calling samar now? have you forgotten? in the past this family hassuffered due to a man's anger.. ..and you have started it again. samar, wait, son! are you happy now? happy? please, i request you. leave me and my husband to our fate.

mom, before cominghere i had made a deal.. ..that both of us will notinterfere in each other's affairs. then why? why have you interfered in everything? grandmother, we won't beable to live the way you had lived. mom, hadn't you said thatour generation is different? that our ideas are different? so our lifestyle too is different. in our married lifeyou are looking for..

..the unfulfilled desiresof your married life. yes. had i not been pregnantyou wouldn't have accepted.. ..a girl like me as thedaughter-in-law of your family. no, sonia. - no. i know i am useless. i am an irresponsible wife.. and an irresponsibledaughter-in-law too, okay? i don't care about myself,my husband or my baby. sonia. sonia.

grandmother! grandmother! yeah, mr. desai, tell me. no, she is not at home. i know the matter isvery important but still.. okay? yeah, bye. nephew, what happened? granduncle,do you know where mom is? no, son. she didn't go tooffice in the morning..

..and she is notreceiving my call also. look, a courier has arrivedfor the travel agency. mom has booked twotickets on a flight. i asked they were whosetickets and to which destination.. ..he said mom has askedthem to keep it confidential. i can't understandwhy mom is doing this. why are you getting worriedover such a small matter? your mother musthave planned to send.. ..you and sonia out of town.

a second honeymoon. you are lucky to be goingon honeymoon second time. i couldn't go on honeymoon even once. what do i tell you? i married naina, your grandaunt. as soon as i entered homeafter marriage my mother said.. ..that until the special offeringsto mother goddess is not made.. ..i will have to sleepwith my father in the kitchen.. ..and my wife willsleep with her in the room.

next? the special offeringswere done on the third day. i was ready with a clean shave. but by the time the specialofferings were made.. ..my mother died. 13 days of inauspicious period. i was counting days. somehow the 13th daywas over and on the 14th day.. ..i was ready with a clean shave.

then naina had to go todhrangdhra to her parents' house.. ..for the very firstvisit after wedding. then? - then what? a curfew of one and half months. somehow i passed those days. 45 days got over. on the 46th day i had a clean shave.. ..and went to bombay central station. the moment nains gotdown from the train..

..i took her straight to matheran. we stayed at maneklal terrace. we ate piping hot sweet breads. i ate 2 and she ate 38. 38? - thirty-eight. she was weak in maths soshe had no idea how many she ate. the cook rushed out. sir, ask this fatwoman to stop eating. my arms are aching bycontinuously rolling breads.

with great difficultyi dragged her out.. ..and we went sightseeing in matheran. she got tired while walking. because she was very fat. so i hired a horse for her. she had eaten 38 sweet breads.. ..but the horse hadn'teaten even grass since morning. the moment she sat onthe horse the horse collapsed. she fell down andshe fractured her leg.

she was on bed rest for 2 months. next? - next what? naina was on the cot with plaster. i was sleeping on thefloor on a mat with bed bugs. next? then nothing. god took pity on meand instead of 2 months.. ..her plaster was removedin one and half months. did you shave? on that occasion i didn't shave.

naina had a shave. i didn't shave but bythat time i had realised.. ..that all the problems wereoccurring because of the shave. then nothing. with the grace of goddessat the end of 9 months.. ..we were blessedwith our daughter, swati. swati weighed 7 pounds. 3 nurses had come to swing her cradle. bhadrakant. bhadrakant.

samar, when did you come? grandmother, i came just now. do you know where mom is? yes, she has gone out for some work. do you need something from her? "mummy, i.." your phone is ringing. "you still love me.." hello, samar choksi speaking.

what? but why? okay, fine. bye. i and mom had a joint bank account. mom has got her name removed from it. ye, mr. chinoy,i'll be there tomorrow. sami, your company's legal adviser mr.chinoy had called up. what did he say? he has called me to theoffice to sign some papers. what papers?

when i asked he said that momhas told him to keep it confidential. i am not getting it.why is mom doing this? last night at 3 o'clock iwent to the kitchen to drink water. mom was standing here. when i asked her what had happened.. ..she hugged me and began to cry.. ..and saying good nightto me she went away. i am really getting tensed about her. all this has happened because of me.

no, sonia, no. no, sami. if i hadn't got angry thatday and if i hadn't rushed about.. ..i wouldn't havesuffered miscarriage. but grandmother,mom got angry so i too got angry. grandmother,i haven't done anything deliberately. grandmother,if it was her first grandchild.. ..then it was our first child too. please tell her to talk to me.

it has been 3 days sincei returned from the hospital.. ..but mom hasn'ttalked to me even once. grandmother, please tell her. i really need her. let her take our all her anger on me. let her tell me.. sonia, you were notfit to become a mother. there was a miscarriageof the heir to this.. ..because of you so it is your fault.

no, sonia.it was neither your fault nor mine. the time was just bad. mom. - enough, samar. we just have to see thatit doesn't sour our relations. no, dear. no, dear,i have no complaints against you. mother, when this girltold me that i was looking for.. ..the unfulfilled desiresof my married life. ..in her married,i realised how you must have felt..

..when i had saidthe same thing to you. i may have thought atthat time that you were wrong.. ..but when i look back i realisenow that you were right, mother. varsha, when thedaughter-in-law feels.. ..that her mother-in-law was right.. ..her own daughter-in-lawhas already entered the family.. ..and she thinks thather mother-in-law is wrong. dear, this is the trend in the world. mother, we have decidedto break that trend..

..and i have alreadymade provisions for that. samar, you will receivea phone call from the bank. i have already received it. mom, why did you get yourname removed from our joint account? samar, i am retiringfrom the business. this is the power of attorney. from now on you will take allthe decisions regarding our business. but. after due thought i had names you.

you are capable. i am confident that you willprove your capability in business. but mom, i am alone. you are not alone. uncle is there. till date he has taken care of us. he will take care of you also. and sonia, these are the documents. mom, what documents are these? dear, these are thedocuments of the house.

mother and i are transferringthis house to your names. samar, both of usare leaving this house. are you leaving this house? no, son,your mother used a wrong word. we are not leaving this house. we are handing over this house to you. whether you are leaving this house.. ..or handing over the house, butit is certain that you are leaving. sister, you took such a big decision..

..and didn't evenfeel the need to tell us? and you are leaving the houseyou have built with your hard work. bhadrakant,we want to break the tradition.. ..that the childrenmust leave the house.. ..if there is a discordbetween children and parents. instead of snatching the rooffrom over the heads of the children.. ..and thereby belittling ourselves.. ..we want to give a roofover the heads of the children.. ..and thereby wantto show our generosity.

instead of living under oneroof and creating a rift among us.. ..we want to live far away andthereby live in your hearts forever. and samar, we are not breakingour relations by leaving. and we are not relievingyou of your responsibilities. in out ill health you willhave to come and take care of us. and whenever you need usit is our duty to stand by you. son, we are putting a commaand not a full stop to our relations. please, mom, don't go like this. sami really loves you a lot.

dear, we too love samar very much. samar is like our breath,but if we hold the breath too long.. ..life gets extinguished. the decision which icouldn't take in the past.. ..varsha has taken it today. instead of keeping herson tied to her apron strings.. ..she has given youfull responsibility for him. had i been able to takethe same decision at that time.. ..my son pratik.. - grandmother.

sister. enough, enough, mother, enough. we are getting late. but at least tell uswhere both of you are going? dwarka. we already have a house there. the sea at the back andlord krishna in the front. what else would we want at this age? sakharam, carry the luggage.

no, mom, i won't let you go. please, son,we have already taken the decision. let us go. - but mom.. granduncle.granduncle, please talk to them. what can i tell them? what do i tell them? by creating a new trendthey have explained.. ..to all the mothers-in-lawin the world.. ..that one has to release theson firmly tied to the apron strings..

..when the daughter-in-law comes. if all the mothers-in-lawin the world understand this fact.. ..all the mothers-in-lawwould love their daughters-in-law .. ..and all the daughters-in-law wouldfind their mothers-in-law tolerable. samar.

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